Life is so valuble, to memorize my friend passed away
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I was shocked when heard one of my best friends, a young lady of her early 30's passed away because of heart disease...
We had worked together for 2 years in a travel agency. A beatiful and lovely girl. She was in charge of department of travel guides.Her marriages were not so good, divorced 3 times, but every time, we stand on her side, because the husbands were just attracted by her beauty. The last time when her got married, all of her friends think she found her prince White Horse at last. Then short after the wedding, she told us the willing of having a baby. This time all of us friends were against her.Because she has a serious heart disease from birth. But at last she won, and got pregnant. Lucky enough, she gave birth to a boy safely.
6 monthes later, on 9th of May, a terrible news put her friends into deep sorrow. She passed away in a hospital of Guangzhou, the second day when she arrived there for looking for any chance of cure her heart.
The last words of her went to her husband,"honey, I feel bad..." then she fall into deep coma, and passed away 7 hours later, leaving behind her husband and son of 6 monthes
The body was burnt in Guangzhou, and now her husband is on the way of driving back to beihai with her ash...
some of her friends are waiting at entrance of the city and will stay together with her ash through night.
Tomorrow, there will be a farewell ceremony.
This is the very first of my friends left the world...I have been in very bad mood when got the news yesterday.
To write this article, made me have my own way to memorize my friend...there is no heart disease, nor any disease in heaven. May have she a healthy life up there!
[ 本帖最后由 ocherry16 于 2006-5-11 23:22 编辑 ]
We had worked together for 2 years in a travel agency. A beatiful and lovely girl. She was in charge of department of travel guides.Her marriages were not so good, divorced 3 times, but every time, we stand on her side, because the husbands were just attracted by her beauty. The last time when her got married, all of her friends think she found her prince White Horse at last. Then short after the wedding, she told us the willing of having a baby. This time all of us friends were against her.Because she has a serious heart disease from birth. But at last she won, and got pregnant. Lucky enough, she gave birth to a boy safely.
6 monthes later, on 9th of May, a terrible news put her friends into deep sorrow. She passed away in a hospital of Guangzhou, the second day when she arrived there for looking for any chance of cure her heart.
The last words of her went to her husband,"honey, I feel bad..." then she fall into deep coma, and passed away 7 hours later, leaving behind her husband and son of 6 monthes
The body was burnt in Guangzhou, and now her husband is on the way of driving back to beihai with her ash...
some of her friends are waiting at entrance of the city and will stay together with her ash through night.
Tomorrow, there will be a farewell ceremony.
This is the very first of my friends left the world...I have been in very bad mood when got the news yesterday.
To write this article, made me have my own way to memorize my friend...there is no heart disease, nor any disease in heaven. May have she a healthy life up there!
[ 本帖最后由 ocherry16 于 2006-5-11 23:22 编辑 ]
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安舟发布于2006-05-11 21:30:11
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So sad
I'm sorry to hear that.
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susu发布于2006-05-11 23:51:05
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I am so sorry to hear that ,,,.and taking good care yourself..
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子约发布于2006-05-12 07:46:45
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She is with God now so let's bless her.
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hillbilly发布于2006-05-12 23:25:34
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Hi 16,I wish to express my deep sorrow on the sad news.I know ,words cannot ease the sorrow of this sort.But you know,in our life , something unexpected may happen any time, please do take care of yourself.May her soul rest in peace.
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万里无云万里天发布于2006-05-15 00:23:49
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16, sorry to hear that. It is the third time to hear the sorrowful news from the friends in one month. I think all the words is no use to a sad people. But I believe that she is an angel, she stay in the heaven now.God bless her!
Please do take care of yourself!
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ocherry16 发布于2006-05-15 14:09:16
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Thanks guys, I feel much better now...
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影子无语发布于2006-05-15 21:03:30
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so so so so so so sad
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草鞋 发布于2006-05-16 00:57:17
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So sad ,God will bless her~~~
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sunbird 发布于2006-05-16 02:30:59
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It is a hard time for her family and friends at this time point, suffering from the huge lose, especially she left a six month old baby. However, this is part of our life. Some times, I try to avoid thinking how it will be my life when I suddenly lose the loved people from life.
Most of us may not know your friend in person, but as it is saying you could know one from people around him/her. Ocherry, I really feel sad for the lose.
In the past two years, I have participated several funerals in US. The ceromony normally is holded in church, where people recall the life pieces with them and share their minds with others. The atmospher is not only sorrow but serious to remind the life arround us and explore the truth from the end of the person's life, who you loved and is used to around you.
Personally I really got purified from these ceromonies and hope could share with you here that we may fail to find the virtures from the people around us everyday and learn from them what is most important for ourselves' life space. But at this time point, it really shows you the truth.
Be positive and brave.
Sunbird
[ 本帖最后由 sunbird 于 2006-5-16 02:39 编辑 ]
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大学牌生物科技发布于2006-05-30 09:02:52
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oh! what a regret to her!
take care of yourself at any time !
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康康99发布于2006-06-25 17:05:03
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I am so sorry to hear that ,,,.and taking good care yourself..
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流浪狗狗发布于2006-07-14 18:29:00
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Two years ago,one of my best friends passed away . It gave me a big blow. I kept myself in my room for three days.
I had not seen him after we gratuated from the school. He just like my brother,actually,he is.
He was an excellent boy in my life. He's thoughtful,gentle,and careful...
The only thing i could do for him is to pray for him ,to hope he enjoyed the live of paradise.
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